Spirituality is a process of inner healing. The wounds of the past can be the greatest obstacles for self-cultivation unless we find them all and heal them.

(Deng Ming-Dao)







Just by choosing where you stand, you alter your destiny.

(Deng Ming-Dao)







I have met the enemy, and he is us.








Courage is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to proceed in spite of it.








When you completely connect with another, even for only a brief moment, you have witnessed Enlightenment.

(Stephen BE)







Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom.

(Lao Tzu)







The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.

(H.D. Thoreau)







"I love you" ... means I love myself when I am in your presence.

(Ken Keyes, Jr.)







It is good to have an end to journey toward, but it is the journey that matters in the end.

(Ursula LeGuin)







An intimate truth is a universal truth.

(John Cournos)







It's only when you stop living in fear of what other people might do to you or how they will react, only then are you free to be alive.

(Elizabeth Shue)







To recognize oneself is to reach the Almighty.








Men can starve from lack of self-realization as much as they can from lack of bread.

(Richard Wright)







Deception occurs when you are divided, truth appears when you are whole.

(Deng Ming-Dao)








How do I know this is true? I look inside myself and see.

(Lao Tzu)







We arrive at truth, not by reason only, but also by the heart.








This above all: To thine own self BE true!

(William Shakespeare)







There is but one thing in the universe, and that one thing is change.








The journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step.

(Lao Tzu)







The mind creates the abyss, the heart crosses it.








Not knowing is true knowledge. Presuming to know is a disease.

(Lao Tzu)







When the student is ready the teacher will appear.





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In its simplest definition, personal growth is a measure of how you are developing as a human being. This implies that there is a developmental scale for being human. Few people know of it or talk about it, but there is a measure of your development. It is called consciousness, and there are distinguishable levels that every person must acquire in order to fulfill one’s purpose.


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As psychotherapists in pursuit of Higher Consciousness for over thirty years, we have helped hundreds of individuals along the way work their way through challenging issues. From the emotional disharmony that accompanies difficult situations, we help people to identify their issues, realize their greater truth, and behave consistently with their truth. This is called consciousness.

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"I didn't consider myself a seeker of consciousness or enlightenment and I wasn't looking for a spiritual awakening, when I first discovered BEing There Enlightenment Systems over 14 years ago. I was just a person who wanted some help.

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Grand Junction, Colorado, USA

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